If You Love Me, Acknowledge My Grief

If You Love Me, Acknowledge My Grief

If you love our laughter, it’s because we’ve known the heartache of loving and losing. It’s because we’ve gotten to a place where laughter didn’t feel like a betrayal; where laughter didn’t hide the tears and frustrations. We’ve fought through the guilt and now...
To The Widow Who Came Before Me

To The Widow Who Came Before Me

Back in 1997, I never thought of her as a widow. We were on the cusp of adulthood, about to graduate from the high school that brought us together.We didn’t run in the same circles but had friends in common.It was March of that year when tragedy struck our school. A...
The Real Deal on Dating a Widow

The Real Deal on Dating a Widow

There have been many articles written about dating someone who has lost a spouse. You’ll hear about our heart expanding to let more love in, and how we’ve learned a deeper appreciation for love and life. Those are all facts. But, there are also a few additional...
Grief Timelines: Fact vs. Fiction

Grief Timelines: Fact vs. Fiction

Ask anyone who is widowed and they will tell you they’ve gotten no shortage of advice – from family, friends, in-laws, other widows and widowers, and some people not even qualified to give a dog a command. But how do you know what’s fact and what’s fiction? How...