Dating While Grieving

Dating While Grieving

I read once that it takes someone with super human qualities to love a woman who is widowed. He needed to have the patience of Job and the strength of Superman to understand that our hearts are big enough to love him and our late spouses at the same time plus deal...
Every Widow Does Not Need a Savior

Every Widow Does Not Need a Savior

I often see stories by my fellow widows who meet a great guy post-loss – their ‘Chapter 2’ as they lovingly refer to them. The widow was deep in her grief, didn’t know her up from down and was unsure how to move forward with her life. Then she met him. He...
To The Widow Whose Husband is Alive

To The Widow Whose Husband is Alive

I know you wavered in your decision to hit “Join”. In your heart, you felt you’d lost the man you married but would anyone else? Would the ladies in the group who planned a funeral or a memorial service understand that although you didn’t have to wear a black dress as...
My Dead Husband. My Right to Grieve

My Dead Husband. My Right to Grieve

Hey, you! The one commenting on the fact that I just posted about my upcoming wedding anniversary despite the fact I lost my spouse two years ago. And, you over there…the person whispering about my tagging my husband in my vacation photo with the kids, even though his...
Loving Again: No Choice Required

Loving Again: No Choice Required

When I met my hubby, I was in a long-distance relationship with a college classmate. I was honest and upfront with my hubby but not quite so open with my boyfriend. Eventually I realized that I loved them both and knew I had to make a choice. Obviously, my hubby won....