Overcoming the “What-Ifs”

Overcoming the “What-Ifs”

There is something unnatural about talking to your husband and then within hours, he’s dead. I became a widow with no warning other than my hubby just wasn’t feeling well. Not feeling well comes with an expectation that the person will get better. Not feeling well...
Get Over It? We Live Grief Everyday!

Get Over It? We Live Grief Everyday!

Today, I am angry. I’m angry because so many in the widowed community are told to “get over” it. To just “move on”…to “stop holding onto the past”. But there is so much that family, friends and society don’t see or refuse to see. Our loss didn’t end the day our...
Five Ways to Grieve with Hope

Five Ways to Grieve with Hope

As I watched Oprah Winfrey’s powerful speech during the 75th Golden Globes, the line, “I’ve interviewed and portrayed people who’ve withstood some of the ugliest things life can throw at you, but the one quality all of them seem to share is an ability to...